“Happiness begins in the mind”
C.G.Thomas
I’m in a new place right now, raw, intense, and unchartered. That sounds dark right? Funny thing is I am absolutely content. As I perused over that first sentence I actually chuckled… See how in the world can I be content with the extremely tragic whirlwind life that I’ve been faced with for the past 24 months? Honestly, the past few years have been a bit rougher than I’m used to. I’ve faced broken relationships, family turmoil, and the loss my coco colored baby boy.
I’m carrying more weight than I am used to nevertheless, I’m content. Not content with being heavier, just content. I’m single and content… Work is extremely hectic yet I am content. I miss my son more than anyone could imagine and in spite of, I am content. I’m certain someone reading this is asking themselves how she could be content with the aforementioned state of her life. Keep reading and you will gain a little insight into Sugar’s happy place…
Incontrovertibility…
What?!?! Ok let me tell you what that means… incontrovertibility means impossible to dispute, undeniable (free dictionary). Let me put that in context for you. My vantage point for the remainder of my life is based on one thing, the pendulum swings both ways. Ok… some of you are still little confused, I will dumb it down for you. For every bad thing that happens there is the possibility for something good to happen or for the Christians reading this I know how to abase and abound.
Basically trouble don’t last always. It is incontrovertible that for every bad day I’ve experienced in this life I will have just as many good days. That pendulum is swinging my way.
Refashioning…
That’s just a fancy word for change. You have the ability to change your situation. If you don’t like your appearance you don’t have to live with it, change it. If you are unhappy with your employment, try learning a new skillset. Don’t wallow, fix it.
What so ever a man sowed, that he shall also reap…
This relationship thing is FRUSTRATING!! If I think about it, I’ve been lied to/on, left, ghosted, and used. Sounds pretty daunting right? Most people would have crumpled under the pressure however, I didn’t. I did not fold or become jaded because I sowed the BOMB relationships. I gave faithfulness, unwavering love, support, and spoke life into the men I loved. What excites me is that I know I will receive the same thing I put out. This allows me the grace to not allow past issues to weigh me down.
Yes, yes I’m content and it feels really good. I have everything I need in this moment, I’m not worried about tomorrow, nor am I concerned about the “who” as it relates to a romantic partner. I am loved beyond measure and for me, in this time and space is more than enough. I hope you have enjoyed your view inside the mind of Sugar Clark.
Be Blessed.
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